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How to Prepare for Your First Session With a San Diego Dominatrix

Updated: Dec 19, 2025

If you’re meeting me for a BDSM session, the experience begins long before you walk through the door. Proper preparation makes your time smoother, safer, and far more pleasurable for both of us.

Here’s how to prepare like a respectful, well-trained submissive.


1. Complete the Required Application

I will not negotiate or book through texts. You must fill out the screening form completely and honestly. Skipping this step guarantees you will be ignored.

2. Send the Deposit

Deposits are mandatory.They protect my time and show that you’re serious.

3. Follow Hygiene Protocol

Before arriving, ensure:

  • You have showered thoroughly

  • Teeth brushed / fresh breath

  • Hands and nails clean

  • Fresh clothes

  • No heavy cologne

A clean sub is an attractive sub.

4. Do Not Arrive High or Drunk

No exceptions.Intoxication = immediate cancellation and no refund.

5. Bring Tribute in an Envelope

Never crumpled bills in a pocket.Never ask “Can I pay another way.”Always presented with respect.

6. Respect the Protocol

You address me as Goddess.You do not touch me without permission. You speak only when allowed.

7. Manage Your Nerves

You should be nervous. It means you’re taking the experience seriously.


Learn more about my expectations, rules, and common questions here.


 
 
 

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