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My Rules 
&
F.A.Q

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SUBMISSIVE RULES & EXPECTATIONS

1. Respect & Obedience

  • You address me as Goddess at all times.

  • You follow instructions the first time they are given. No negotiating.

  • Arguing, begging, or topping-from-the-bottom results in dismissal.

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2. Communication

  • You speak clearly, concisely, and only when allowed.

  • You keep me updated on arrival time, screening, deposits, and any required info.

  • Silence, flakiness, or unclear communication is disrespect and will be punished.

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3. Hygiene & Presentation

  • You arrive clean, deodorized, shaved or trimmed, nails clean, breath fresh.

  • Wear what I instruct or keep it simple: black, neutral, discreet.

  • If I request grooming prep (toes, underwear, chastity, etc.), you comply.

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4. Time & Punctuality

  • You arrive five minutes early, never late.

  • Last-minute changes are not tolerated.

  • My time is more valuable than yours, respect it.

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5. Consent & Boundaries

  • You list your limits before the session.

  • Once the session begins, you stay within the dynamic.

  • Anything outside stated limits requires new negotiation (beforehand, not during).

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6. Payment & Tribute

  • Deposits are mandatory: no deposit, no session.

  • You tribute on time, discreetly, through the method I choose.

  • Attempted haggling results in instant block.

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7. Behavior During Session

  • You enter in service mindset, not fantasy boyfriend mode.

  • You stay where I put you: knees, floor, restraints, position.

  • You ask permission before touching anything including: Me, my tools, or my shoes.

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8. Aftercare & Conduct

  • You follow aftercare instructions if provided.

  • No overtalking, oversharing, or trying to extend time.

  • You leave when dismissed. Quietly and respectfully.

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9. Privacy & Discretion

  • You never share my personal info, location, or conversations.

  • Photos/videos are strictly prohibited unless I request or allow it.

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10. Gratitude & Attitude

  • You show appreciation for the session, tribute, and my dominance.

  • Entitlement and ego have no place here.

  • You behave like someone privileged to serve.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you see beginners?​​

Yes, I work with beginners who are serious, respectful, and willing to follow directions. You do not need prior experience, only honesty, openness, and the ability to communicate clearly.

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Where is your dungeon located?

​My private incall is discreetly located in a residential area in San Diego, CA, equipped with: A St. Andrew’s cross, custom bondage bench, color-adjustable LED lighting, a curated selection of tools, complete privacy for exploration.

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Is everything we do consensual?

Always. Consent, negotiation, and respect for limits are the foundation of my work. You may feel challenged or pushed within the boundaries we agree on, but never violated.

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Will anyone know I see you?

Discretion is standard. I do not share your information or identity. Any content creation (photos, videos, public scenes) would require separate, explicit consent from you.

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What if I get nervous or overwhelmed?

That’s normal, especially for intense or new experiences. We use safewords and check-ins. You are allowed to pause, adjust, or stop a scene at any time.

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Can I bring you gifts or tribute beyond the session?

Yes, tribute and wishlists are a form of appreciation, not a replacement for session tribute or etiquette.

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