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My Rules 
&
F.A.Q

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SUBMISSIVE RULES & EXPECTATIONS

1. Respect & Obedience

  • You address me as Goddess at all times.

  • You follow instructions the first time they are given. No negotiating.

  • Arguing, begging, or topping-from-the-bottom results in dismissal.

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2. Communication

  • You speak clearly, concisely, and only when allowed.

  • You keep me updated on arrival time, screening, deposits, and any required info.

  • Silence, flakiness, or unclear communication is disrespect and will be punished.

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3. Hygiene & Presentation

  • You arrive clean, deodorized, shaved or trimmed, nails clean, breath fresh.

  • Wear what I instruct or keep it simple: black, neutral, discreet.

  • If I request grooming prep (toes, underwear, chastity, etc.), you comply.

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4. Time & Punctuality

  • You arrive five minutes early, never late.

  • Last-minute changes are not tolerated.

  • My time is more valuable than yours, respect it.

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5. Consent & Boundaries

  • You list your limits before the session.

  • Once the session begins, you stay within the dynamic.

  • Anything outside stated limits requires new negotiation (beforehand, not during).

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6. Payment & Tribute

  • Deposits are mandatory: no deposit, no session.

  • You tribute on time, discreetly, through the method I choose.

  • Attempted haggling results in instant block.

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7. Behavior During Session

  • You enter in service mindset, not fantasy boyfriend mode.

  • You stay where I put you: knees, floor, restraints, position.

  • You ask permission before touching anything including: Me, my tools, or my shoes.

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8. Aftercare & Conduct

  • You follow aftercare instructions if provided.

  • No overtalking, oversharing, or trying to extend time.

  • You leave when dismissed. Quietly and respectfully.

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9. Privacy & Discretion

  • You never share my personal info, location, or conversations.

  • Photos/videos are strictly prohibited unless I request or allow it.

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10. Gratitude & Attitude

  • You show appreciation for the session, tribute, and my dominance.

  • Entitlement and ego have no place here.

  • You behave like someone privileged to serve.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you see beginners?​​

Yes, I work with beginners who are serious, respectful, and willing to follow directions. You do not need prior experience, only honesty, openness, and the ability to communicate clearly.

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Can I bring you gifts or tribute beyond the session?

Yes, tributes are a form of appreciation, not a replacement for session tribute or etiquette. I've created a wishlist featuring items that genuinely bring me joy or become part of my creative world https://throne.com/worshipthefever

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Where is your dungeon located?

​My private incall is discreetly located in a residential area in San Diego, CA, equipped with: A St. Andrew’s cross, custom bondage bench, color-adjustable LED lighting, a curated selection of tools, complete privacy for exploration.

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Will anyone know I see you?

Discretion is standard. I do not share your information or identity. Any content creation (photos, videos, public scenes) would require separate, explicit consent from you.

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What if I get nervous or overwhelmed?

That’s normal, especially for intense or new experiences. We use safewords and check-ins. You are allowed to pause, adjust, or stop a scene at any time.

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